Anyone can give you a reference for your first job if they know you and are not a family member. Think about the things you've done in your life, and who knows about your skills and what you're like as a person.
Employers ask for references because they want to find out if you can be trusted, are reliable and can do the job. Anyone can give you a ‘professional’ reference if they know about your skills and achievements. Think about:
teachers, lecturers or instructors from school, university or any other type of course
work experience managers
people who know you who are in paid work
people from your community
Some employers will ask for ‘character’ references. You can ask anyone who knows you well.
People who can give you a good reference
People will be good referees if they:
are professionals rather than friends
can be contacted easily when you apply for a job
have known you for a long time
Stay in touch with people who can give you a good reference.
Volunteering can help
If you’ve volunteered in a role related to the job you’re applying for, your referee can say that you have the skills for the job. Ask for a reference at the end of your placement.
If you think someone could give you a reference, ask them if they’re happy to do this. How you ask depends on your relationship. You can ask friends face-to-face or by text. Ask professionals if you can or send a polite email:
I hope you are well. I am applying for jobs as a [job role] and was wondering if you would act as a referee in my applications? If this is OK, could you please forward me your full contact details? Many thanks for your time.
Most professional people will know about providing references. If you get a job offer, make sure you can give your referees' details such as: